I wish I know all the answer to these questions, I wish I am capable of easing the pain. I do not wanna mess up everyone’s happiness but let’s get sentimental and bare with me. For the record, this post is not about me, this is dedicated to all my beautiful friends who are currently broken and in pain. It has been a long time already since I have felt that emptiness inside, the crushing pain, the bitterness of truth, the unbearable sadness and those sleepless nights. I am such an emotional freak but I am very happy and lucky to have passed that stage. I have considered myself lucky to be able to wake up to the same person who broke my heart and came back. But not all are lucky enough to find the the right love and I wish I could explain everything to ease their pain.
Heartbreaks are considered the COMA phase in every girls life. We are very emotional that we tend to blame ourselves for loosing the person we love, we always go back and pick up the pieces trying to understand what had happened and why he left? We always want him back despite of everything, we become stupid, lonely, lifeless. But despite of it all I have considered these things to be a normal thing. After a couple of months we start to move on and pick up ourselves, we start to enjoy the sweetness of life, we then create a new perspective and new dreams. Then once everything is healed, we are then ready to fall in love again.
It is a cycle, even though how much it stings right now, we will then be able to surpass the pain. Trust me, WOMEN are emotionally stable than MEN. So right now, try to move on, enjoy life, get busy. Learn new things, get away, have fun. Try not to loose yourself. And lastly this is the best TIME to FIND and LOVE YOURSELF again.
How about you my dear readers? How do you move on? Share your tips and ideas…every girl wants to know 🙂